Gone are the days where everyone had to have a big, fancy wedding. More and more, couples are now trading in the huge stress of “traditional” for a simpler wedding.
They’re less expensive, just as meaningful and definitely less stressful. Simple weddings don’t usually take as long to plan – which is perfect for couples who don’t want a long engagement.
Here are some tips for planning a fun, laid-back wedding!
Set A Date
Timing matters. Think about when you’re getting married. Choosing an off-season (for example, not mid-summer or holiday weekend) date will immediately cut the costs of your desired venue. The same goes for having your wedding on a Friday or Sunday as opposed to picking Saturday night for your celebration.
Be The CEO Of Your Wedding Planning
Don’t be afraid to delegate! You’re bound to have family and friends that will jump at the chance to help you plan your wedding. Giving them tasks you need done will help them feel special as they get to be a part of planning your big day.
Let Your Guests Replace A Wedding Photographer
You know your guests are going to be taking photos, anyway. Why not use that?
Choose A Multi-Purpose Venue
Consider choosing a venue where you can hold both your ceremony and reception. You’ll save on both costs and transportation. That means a gorgeous setting that needs little adornment so you don’t have to worry about decorating details.
Minimize The Guest List
While it may be traditional to invite everyone you know, it’s so much simpler to keep the guest list to those you’re close to. This will make your wedding feel more like a fabulous get-together with family and close friends than an event.
Keep The Menu Simple
Whether you choose to get the menu yourself or get a caterer, don’t go overboard. If you’ve kept your
guest list to those closest to you, then they aren’t there for a big, fancy menu. They’re there to help you celebrate your big day.
Keep The Decorations Simple
Choosing a naturally beautiful venue, like a historic church or building with unique architecture,
is an easy solution. You’ll be able to admire the simple beauty of your setting without needing extra decorations. If you’re planning an outdoor wedding, you can save on decorations by choosing a space with a natural focal point, like a giant tree or a body of water. The natural setting will be refreshing in a way your guests will appreciate.
Don’t Feel Pressured To Write Your Own Vows
Traditional wedding vows are still beautiful and personal – because it’s the two of you who are saying them. I’m a writer, so naturally, I was initially convinced that we should write our own vows.
Repurpose Flowers & Decor
Use altar arrangements at the head table, and place bridal attendant’s bouquets in vases for centerpieces so you’re not paying twice.
Nix The Extras
Don’t sweat the small stuff – like custom cocktail napkins, signs for everything, favors no one wants, etc. Guests notice the food, the bar, the energy, the love between the couple. They don’t really care about the Pinterest-perfect touches.
Splurge On What Matters
Hosting a smaller wedding lets you direct more funds to high-priority elements, like a good photographer, that special dress, or even your honeymoon.
Planning the perfect wedding isn’t a piece of cake. So throw the idea of perfection out the window and focus on what’s most important – getting married and having fun.